Why Talking About Dreams Shouldn't be Dismissed as Fluffy
Does talking about your dreams and desires seem too fluffy?
Does the other part of your mind keep telling you it’s too unrealistic?

You’re not alone. Many of us hesitate to dream big because that little voice whispers, “What’s the point?” But here’s the truth: dreaming isn’t just wishful thinking. It’s the first step in creating something extraordinary in your life.
If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “There must be more to life than this,” don’t ignore or stuff that thought away. That feeling is a signal—a nudge that there’s something greater waiting for you to discover.
It’s easy to dismiss your dreams when they feel far away or too big to achieve. But here’s another truth: big dreams don’t have to be world-changing or nation-wide impacting. They can be as personal as helping your local community, creating a supportive space for friends and family, or starting a small business that brings joy to others.
No matter the scale of your dream, it matters. Today, let’s talk about turning those dreams into something tangible—one small, actionable step at a time.
Why Do Dreams Matter?
Dreams have a way of revealing what truly matters to us. They’re often rooted in the things that bring us joy, fulfillment, and purpose. Maybe you dream of starting a neighborhood coffee shop, organizing local art workshops, or creating a space where your community can come together.
When you push those dreams aside, you’re often ignoring the things that make life meaningful to you. That little thought—that whisper that there must be more—deserves your attention. It’s a call to lean into the things that excite and inspire you, even if they feel small or personal.
Overcoming the Doubts
Doubt is natural. It’s your brain’s way of protecting you from failure or disappointment. But here’s the thing: fear of failing shouldn’t stop you from starting. What if, instead of focusing on the possibility of failure, you focused on small, achievable actions?
When you shift your perspective from “What if it doesn’t work?” to “What small thing can I do today?” you’re already on the path to progress.
Your Next Steps
Here’s how to take your dream from “fluffy” to focused:
1. Acknowledge Your Desire
What is it that you truly want? Write it down, even if it feels bold or scary. Don’t overthink it—just write what comes to mind.
2. Pay Attention to the Nudge
If you’ve felt that thought—“There must be more to life than this”—it’s time to listen. What is that thought pointing you toward? Take it seriously.
3. Identify the First Step
No dream is too big—or too small—if you break it into smaller, actionable steps. If you want to improve your local community, start by volunteering, meeting others with similar goals, or simply asking how you can help.
4. Commit to Consistent Action
The secret to progress is consistency. Choose one thing you can do this week, no matter how small. For example, if your dream is to create a community space, start by brainstorming ideas or talking to neighbors.
5. Celebrate Progress, Not Perfection
Your path won’t be perfect—and that’s okay. Focus on the progress you’re making and celebrate every small win along the way.
Real Talk: It’s Okay to Dream
If talking about your dreams feels silly or impractical, remember this: every great achievement started with someone daring to dream. The only difference between a dream and reality is action.
Your dreams don’t have to feel realistic right now. They just have to matter enough to you to take the first step. And if you’re even slightly thinking “There must be more to life than this,” trust that feeling. It’s there for a reason.
Whether your dream is global, national, or local, it’s valid. Sometimes the most impactful dreams are the ones that improve the lives of those closest to you.
This Week’s Challenge
Here’s what I’d love for you to do:
1. Write down one dream or goal you’ve been putting off.
2. Identify one small step you can take toward it this week.
3. Share your progress! Leave a comment or message me to let me know what you’re working on.
Your dream matters. You matter. And the life you want is waiting for you on the other side of consistency and action.
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